Well funny thing how I always seem to blog now on friday night, or friday’s eve….Go figure.

I’m at home just relaxing with a brew and a movie. I recently found out that my youngest son is autistic. Yes, I said Autistic. Kinda hard to sallow at first, I cried a few times, but then I pulled my boot straps up and said- okay let’s do this. take this thing head on and keep going. Not like it has never happened, but with full force of extra attention and love. As some of you know his father is pretty much just that- his father. He has become a person that has not joined arms with me but to stand in my way. Let me explain.

When I relocated to the state I’m in, I qualified for Medicaid for my children (my two sons), I have had this coverage for them for some time now. When my sons father was ordered by his state to start paying for child support (because he got away for too long not paying nothing and wanting all the benefits of it- parent for free he says) the state ordered for him to pay for medical coverage too. He has that option available to him. I don’t, which is why I have Medicaid. He found out that after the 4 weeks he is now paying for medical coverage for our son- that I haven’t used the insurance, he began to threaten me with- I will call your state and have your Medicaid cancelled. Mind you his coverage costs money to use, 30 bucks plus co-pays, something like 550 plus deductables..Outrageous. I don’t have that kind of money to just use that coverage. who does these days?

I kept my children’s Medicaid for a secondary. KEEP in MIND, my youngest sons father has also put his notice into his work to leave his job, after the hearing for child support to be ordered. Ironic if you ask me. Why try to destroy my hard work for getting my children the coverage they need when your going to be jobless soon. Just another one of his threats he made good on. SO- not only have this guy quit his job, have no new job lined up, complains about paying his support and medical coverage, he threatens to destroy any good thing I have going for our son and getting him the help he needs for his autism. I say give this guy the father of the year award.

I have an up-hill battle not only with my sons autism but with his loser father.

I was sitting here and my phone starts buzzing, texts roll in has my sons father is out at that pub having dinner, trying to talk to me about- I’m sorry about this, do you miss this state, yeah well its because of you is why I’m sick of this place. Sounds like someones booze is starting to talk. Well, NO sympathy for you my dear. 

I have embraced my motherhood even more and will fight to the end for my children. You Mr. father of the year- don’t stand in my way, and if you plan on doing so- YOU better be ready to take a hit because I will plow right though you ( I will stop you before you destroy what good I have for my children) and your false words. I am Unstoppable.